If you want a live feed of a conversation in your own web page, you can use excellent FeedDigest service.
Suppose you want to put this conversation on your web page:

Right click (or control-click if you're on a Mac) on the 'RSS feed' link and copy the address of the feed ('Copy Shortcut' in Internet Explorer, or 'Copy Link Location' in Firefox.)
The address should look something like: http://9cays.com/conversation/aDUojbjHugsb/rss


